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People are egoistic in a way that they come to believe that they can arrange future. They schedule without any disbelief over their predictions. They dream and put their feelings on a calendar. People are stupid; You can’t schedule anything.

You are too small.

And the world is too big. It’s just a matter of variables: You are one variable and your environment is infinite variables. Even if you really have control over your actions – which you don’t -, even then how can you control everything else? Our mind is not made to create a future: Just sit back and enjoy the ride

or become angry and dissapointed.

Where do people usually make the mistake of thinking too deep in the future?

  • A romantic relationship: You make dreams for years in the future, for marriage and kids but you can’t predict the wonderful person that will show up tommorow and “steal your heart”.
  • A friendly relationship: You become so much used to a person’s company that you arrange a future based partially on his/her influence. But you can’t predict that you will be bored of him tomorrow/or that he will die in a car crash.
  • A day’s planning: You say that you will go for dinner at night, but you can’t predict that terrible headache that will make you stay at home

Do you get the point? You never had any control over your life: We are spectators and commentators, maybe even actors, but definitely not directors of our life. Read More »

There come times in our life where we feel something that we call “anxiety“. Why for? Because we try to be bigger than we should. People are small, that’s their nature and life can’t be happy unless we accept our size.

“Bigger” is bad egoism.

Most people are hollow. They seem to miss something, don’t know what. Because of that they want to be bigger. They probably haven’t realize that their hollowness follows their growth. Anyway, wanting to be bigger (as anyone would mean that) cannot have an end in an infinite space (both physically as well as mentally) and that’s why it can’t lead to the fulfillment of this need.

Have you ever seen the stars?

You can never be content about how powerful you are: Even if you are really powerful in our society, you still are a small piece of dust in the whole universe. Accept your size and that’s the first step towards the permanent smile in your face. 🙂

Be practical!

Ok, you may be anxious everyday and frequently use words like “obligated”. Hahaha! I’m laughing at you! 😀 Do you really think that YOU, just a mere person among the millions that have lived and died, that you are anywhere close to important? No, you can’t be obligated, because your actions affect only YOU and a few people close to you. And you can even put these people out: You live only for YOU.

Be free.

Take a look at the routine. Just stay back for a while and take a simple look at the series of everyday events called “routine”. Do you notice? Yes, it’s consisted of truly unimportant simple things. And do you notice something more? Yes, even the routine has an end: Your end! Understand the importance that every moment of your life has and do yourself a favor and be more carefree.

Generally…

The world existed great before you were born and will still exist great after you die.

* image from http://antwrp.gsfc.nasa.gov/apod/ap080503.html